What’s the difference between success and failure?
Lots of people may think there’s a world of difference between the two. But the reality is that they’re much closer than you think.
That’s because in order to succeed big, you need to risk failing big. And often, you need to fail over and over again if you want to get the success you really deserve.
Just think about some of the world’s most successful people.
J.K. Rowling, one of the world’s most successful writers and creator of the Harry Potter series, considered suicide in her early 20’s.
Walt Disney, one of the world’s most creative and unique talents, saw his first big project – Laugh-O-Gram Studio – go bankrupt in 1923, long before he launched his media & entertainment empire.
Elvis Presley, the “King of Rock and Roll”, was told by Jim Denny, manager of the Grand Old Oprey, after one potentially career-changing gig “You ain’t goin’ nowhere, son. You ought to go back to drivin’ a truck.”
So what does this tell us about success and failure? A few things.
5 Things to Learn From Success and Failure
1. It’s not whether you fall down, it’s whether you get back up
Elvis, Walt Disney, J.K. Rowling and countless other successful people have failed over and over again. What’s the difference with them, and people who fail once and give up? To name a few – fame, fortune, and living a life true to their passion.
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2. Failure is just life’s way of giving you feedback
I once heard someone say that failure is just a form of feedback, nothing more, nothing less. Those words rocked my world. I realized when I heard them that if you can treat life as a big experiment with the goal to learn as much as possible as fast as you can, so you can get to your success-formula faster, you’ll be better off than you would have been had you taken the “safe” road.
3. It’s always darkest just before dawn
If you’ve been knocked down in life before, then you know that man’s biggest successes come not from avoiding catastrophe, but instead by facing obstacles head-on, falling down every now and again, getting back up and dusting himself off to continue the fight.
Hey, if there weren’t any challenges on the road to success, it would be easy, and everybody would get what they want. What fun would that be?
4. Learn from your mistakes
I’ll use the word “mistakes” lightly here. After all, if you learn something from a mistake, then that’s not really a mistake, instead it’s valuable feedback. The important thing to do is to take that feedback as a learning opportunity so you can move yourself closer to success every day.
5. Continued effort pays off
You remember the story about the tortoise and the hare, right? Some people called the tortoise stubborn, slow, and even boring. But guess what? With each slippery, slow, methodical step he took, he got closer to his goal. Meanwhile the rabbit was taking a nap…losing the proverbial fight to the persistent tortoise.
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So what does all of this mean?
As you work toward achieving any of your goals – whether it’s to get healthier and lose some unwanted fat, or start a new business, or become a better parent – know that failure is inevitable. As a matter of fact, it’s desired. You should relish it. Because in those moments of failure, you’ll have the choice to either continue on your current path, give up, or change course and plow ahead.
And that decision – time and time again – is what builds character. It’s what separate the weak from the strong. And it’s what can get you everything you want in life.
The difference between success and failure isn’t that big…it really starts with a simple decision, after your next mis-step. The question is, what will your decision be?
Dan Cassidy is CEO & Founder of Inspiyr.com, an online magazine helping people become healthier, happier and more successful each day.
Featured image by Lorenz PhotoClimber
Originally posted 12/13 and updated 11/14.