Let’s cut to the chase. Women are awesome! Dating women, spending time with women, being surrounded by women is awesome.
Unless you’re trapped in the “friend zone”…
Then being around women can be torture. You are in a prison and beautiful women are the guards. They are all around you, but you can’t reach through the bars to touch them.
I have been where you are. But I escaped. And now I can help you arrange your own prison break.
The thing about this escape is that it’s not about what you should do; it’s about what you must not do. If you can avoid these seven deadly dating sins, then you can have a life worth living.
Avoid These Dating Mistakes Like the Plague
1. Being Too Eager
You want a girl. You want to date her. But if you get too excited and push too hard you will kill her attraction for you. Wood needs two things to burn, fire and oxygen. If you cover her with your fire, she can’t get any oxygen and will pull back just to be able to breathe.
Give her the space to fall for you. Let her know you are interested but don’t go for the full court press.
2. Acting Like a Child
As children we hold our mom’s hand and let her lead us everywhere. She tells us what to do and where to go. We are used to letting a woman lead us around.
Do not do this with a woman you’re attracted to. Every time she leads you through a club or picks the restaurant or movie, a little part of her attraction for you dies. She will stop feeling like your girlfriend and start feeling like your mommy.
Women like men of action; decision-makers, trigger-pullers. If you can’t pick a restaurant, how are you going to protect her when there is a noise downstairs in the middle of the night?
Stop acting like a child. Start acting like a man.
You like a girl. You spend months planning out the perfect way to ask her out. But the day before you do, some random dude just walks up and asks her out. Now they’ve been dating for months and are talking about getting married. And you get to cry yourself to sleep at night.
Ninety-percent of dating is actually about taking action.
You wouldn’t believe how often